Whoever said that didn’t fully grasp what a human being is. At some point and time all people will show emotion, whether it be in public or in private. You can’t keep everything bottled inside forever. It doesn’t matter if your male, female, or both. A real man shows his emotion because he’s not afraid to admit he also has feelings… to admit he is human.
I don’t know if I’ve ever talked/posted about this, but whatever.
I constantly, constantly see guys, friends, strangers doing whatever they please, sexually, with whomever they want, when they want, and how they want. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying you have to stay a virgin till you die, till you get married, etc. It’s your life, you can wait or not wait, but I also think you should inform that person of what is going on. Too many females end up emotionally distraught because they gave up “their most prized possession” thinking a relationship was going to come of whatever you guys “had.”
I’m guessing this is our/your time to have fun and experiment, but at least make sure you BOTH know what you are getting into. Let her know that their are no strings attached. If she’s with it — cool. If she’s not — chill. There’s nothing worse than leading a female, or anybody, on just for your own pleasure. That’s foul.
I’m rambling on… I’m just saying. Have your fun, but becareful with these female’s emotions while you do so. Have the same respect you would want in return. You know?
(Excuse my spelling and grammatical errors. I’m on my Blackberry. :D)